1. What is your gender?

    
  female              
2. What year are you in school  
   
3. Who do you rely on for information about sex? Mark all that apply.  
                                     
 
books
family
doctors clergy health centers  
  friends partners internet teachers    
 
4. Have you had an intimate experience or any sexual contact?  
  if you answered no, skip to question 19.  
                                         
Please take a moment to think about the best intimate or sexual experience you have had. This includes cuddling, making out, hugging, kissing, vaginal, oral, and/or anal intercourse.
                                     
5. I talked about the intimate or sexual contact with my partner prior to the experience?    
                                 
6. I verbally agreed to be intimate prior to contact?    
  yes no                                
7. My partner verbally agreed to participate before?    
  yes no                                
8. My partner really listened to what I wanted during the experience?    
  yes no                                
9. No alcohol or drugs were involved in the experience?    
  yes no                                
10. I was buzzed during the experience?    
                                     
    yes no                                
  11. I was not sober or barely remember the intimate experience?    
    yes no                                
  12. I knew my partner very well before the experience?    
    yes no                                
  13. I felt completely willing during the experience?    
    yes no                                
  14. My partner told me what he/she wanted during the experience?    
    yes no                                
                                     
Based on the scale below, indicate how often you engage in the behavior listed.
                                     
15. I am more likely to be intimate when I am intoxicated.
                                     
         
16. I need to be intoxicated to be intimate.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never    
17. When I am intimate, I ask if it's okay before moving forward.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never    
18. When I am intimate with someone I rely on body language before progressing.  
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never    
                                     
19. When I hear a derogatory comment about women, I interrupt the person saying it.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never    
20. I stop sexual activity when asked to, even if I am sexually aroused.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never      
21. When I witness a male flirting with someone and I know s/he doesn't want it, I intervene.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never      
22. When I witness a situation in which it looks someone might end up being taken advantage of, I intervene.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never      
23. I stop the progression of intimacy the first time my date says 'no' to intimate activity.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never    
24. When I go to a movie I walk out when it is offensive or inappropriate.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never      
25. I don't buy CDs or return CDs because of offensive or inappropriate lyrics.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never      
                                       
Based on the scale below, indicate yow you believe most male and female college students would respond to these behaviors listed. Answer the question using gray for males and blue for females.
                                     
ex. Has intimate experiences when s/he is intoxicated.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
 
(this is how you think most college men would respond to this question)
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
 
(this is how you think most college women would respond to this question)
                                     
26. Has intimate experiences when s/he is intoxicated.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
27. Is intimate when his/her partner is intoxicated.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
28. When s/he is intimate with someone s/he asks questions prior to moving forward.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
29. S/He goes with the flow and relies on body language before progressing with intimate behavior.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
30. When s/he hears a derogatory comment about women, s/he interrupts the person telling the joke.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
31. S/He stops sexual activity when asked to even if s/he is already sexually aroused.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
32. When s/he witnesses a male flirting with someone and s/he knows s/he doesn't want it, s/he intervenes.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
33. When s/he witnesses a situation in which it looks like someone might end up being taken advantage of, s/he intervenes.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
34. Has the opportunity to have sex but doesn't because s/he knew her/his partner really doesn't want to.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
35. Stops the first time his/her date says "no" to sexual activity.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
36. When s/he goes to a movie s/he walks out when it is offensive or inappropriate.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
37. S/He doesn't by CD's or returns CDs because of offensive or inappropriate lyrics.
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
  Always Often Sometimes Rarely Never  
                                     
Based on the scale below, state your perceptions of the following statements.
                                     
38. I believe that talking about sex destroys the romance of that particular moment.
  strongly agree disagree                    
  agree strongly disagree                    
39. A man can control his behavior no matter how sexually aroused he feels.
  strongly agree disagree                    
  agree strongly disagree                    
40. I believe that alcohol and other drugs affect my sexual decision-making.
  strongly agree disagree                    
  agree strongly disagree                    
41. When a woman says 'no' to sex what she really means is 'maybe.'
  strongly agree disagree                    
  agree strongly disagree                    
42. When my date asks me back to his/her place, I expect that something sexual will happen.
  strongly agree disagree                    
  agree strongly disagree                    
43. Influencing someone to be intimate is okay.
  strongly agree disagree                    
  agree strongly disagree                    
                                     
Based on the scale below, indicate yow you believe most male and female college students would respond to these behaviors listed. Answer the question using gray for males and blue for females.
                                     
44. Believe that talking about sex destroys the romance of that particular moment.
  strongly agree strongly agree              
  agree agree              
  disagree disagree              
  strongly disagree strongly disagree              
45. A man can control his behavior no matter how sexually aroused he feels.
  strongly agree strongly agree              
  agree agree              
  disagree disagree              
  strongly disagree strongly disagree              
46. Alcohol and other drugs affect sexual decision-making.
  strongly agree strongly agree              
  agree agree              
  disagree disagree              
  strongly disagree strongly disagree              
47. When a woman says 'no' to sex what she really means is 'maybe.'
  strongly agree strongly agree              
  agree agree              
  disagree disagree              
  strongly disagree strongly disagree              
48. When a date asks someone back to her/his place, it is expected that something sexual will happen..
  strongly agree strongly agree              
  agree agree              
  disagree disagree              
  strongly disagree strongly disagree              
49. Using verbal pressure to get sex is okay.
  strongly agree strongly agree              
  agree agree              
  disagree disagree              
  strongly disagree strongly disagree              
                                       
  Please indicate how comfortable you might be in each of the following situations.
                                       
  51. When talking with a friend about a woman he likes, he says, "I took her our for dinner and a movie and we didn't even hook up."
  very comfortable somewhat uncomfortable      
  somewhat comfortable uncomfortable      
52. A bunch of your buddies are hanging out, talking, and someone starts teasing your friend, saying he's 'whipped' because he helped the person he's been dating move last weekend.
  very comfortable somewhat uncomfortable      
  somewhat comfortable uncomfortable      
53. You ask a male friend about a woman in one of your classes. He says, "She's hot, but she's a slut."
  very comfortable somewhat uncomfortable      
  somewhat comfortable uncomfortable      
54. At a party an acquaintance tells you a sexist joke.
  very comfortable somewhat uncomfortable      
  somewhat comfortable uncomfortable      
55. You're at the Student union and your friend tells you, "She wants me" just after a pretty woman walks by both of you.
  very comfortable somewhat uncomfortable      
  somewhat comfortable uncomfortable      
                                     
Estimate the degree of comfort that you think most male and female college students would